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You Might See Better With Your Eyes Closed
Read more: You Might See Better With Your Eyes ClosedIt is only with the heart that one can see rightly;what is essential is invisible to the eye.Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, from The Little Prince I think of this cartoon every time my neighbor’s crazy dog begins barking and runs full tilt after my car. It seems painful every single time: He reaches the end of…
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To Burn or Not to Burn, That is the Question
Read more: To Burn or Not to Burn, That is the QuestionEven if we don’t play with matches, life does. We all find ourselves on sinking ships and must learn to swim before we are ready.
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Maybe You Don’t Have A Problem, Drama Queen
Read more: Maybe You Don’t Have A Problem, Drama Queen“Shower on him every blessing, drown him in a sea of happiness, give him economic prosperity such that he should have nothing else to do but sleep, eat cakes, and busy himself with the continuation of the species, and even then, out of sheer ingratitude, sheer spite, man would play you some nasty trick”. Dostoevsky…
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The Vitality Scale: The Ultimate Measuring Stick
Read more: The Vitality Scale: The Ultimate Measuring StickLife is occupied in both perpetuating itself & in surpassing itself; if all it does is maintain itself, then living is only not dying, & human existence is indistinguishable from an absurd vegetation. Simone de Beauvoir Is this not the scale by which you use to determine who you befriend and spend time with? On…
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Quote of the day: Be the CEO and the accountant of your life
Read more: Quote of the day: Be the CEO and the accountant of your lifeWe don’t live up to the goals we set, instead, we fall to the level of the standards we live by.
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I’m just sayin’: Nostalgia for Americans
Read more: I’m just sayin’: Nostalgia for AmericansNostalgia for Americans In his book The Road to Character, David Brooks describes how, when George Bush (Sr.) was campaigning to be president, he would cross the I’s out of the speeches his speechwriters gave him. He grew-up in an era that stressed humility; an era where it was bad form to be vain and brag…
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I’m just sayin’: A garbage display if I ever saw one
Read more: I’m just sayin’: A garbage display if I ever saw oneReally? A man who aspires to be President (again) says “We’re like a garbage can for the rest of the world to dump the people that they don’t want.” Very unpresidential, very demeaning to those who don’t have the fortune he has, just plain cruel and bigoted. And now the President calls people garbage for…
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Quote of the day: Is it time to hurry yet?
Read more: Quote of the day: Is it time to hurry yet?“If you don’t hurry up and let life know what you want, life will damned soon show you what you’ll get.”Robertson Davies, Fifth Business Is this a sterner version of Kipling’s line? Don’t even come to the bargaining table and see what you get…. K. Wilkins is the author of: Stoic Virtues Journal: Your Guide to…
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I’m just sayin’: B.S. Part I – What I think about what you think is one thing, what you think (or not) about what you think is entirely another
Read more: I’m just sayin’: B.S. Part I – What I think about what you think is one thing, what you think (or not) about what you think is entirely anotherThe algorithm on Youtube seems to know that I wrote a book dedicated to the psychological advice of Jordan Peterson. It seems to be oblivious to the fact that I care very little for politics. I was thus fed a clip that I would normally ignore (and really should have, lest the algorithm feed me…
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Quote of the day: There is a cure for curiosity, but I’d advise against it.
Read more: Quote of the day: There is a cure for curiosity, but I’d advise against it.“It is impossible to begin to learn that which one thinks one already knows.” Epictetus Since we were on the subject of youth with Taleb’s quote…. Book smarts and life smarts: It astonishes me that my younger self sat down in hundreds of classrooms curious to learn what I did not know (well, most of…
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Worth my time: Infinite wisdom
Read more: Worth my time: Infinite wisdomIn this episode of The Drive podcast one can’t help but ask what’s next. More importantly, we ask what now? Junger outlines how Dostoyevsky’s near-death experience – facing a firing squad – transformed his approach to life. Surviving led him to vow to turn every moment into an infinity. How often do we do that…
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Quote of the day: Is that really it, or is it a proxy for it?
Read more: Quote of the day: Is that really it, or is it a proxy for it?But is the thing you want what you really want? Think hard about the regret that weighs tons we considered from the Rohn quote or the lousy bargain Kipling speaks of. It might not be what it seems on the surface: a possession, a title or career, or a specific relationship. It may not be…
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Quote of the day: Whole numbers and fractions matter beyond the classrom
Read more: Quote of the day: Whole numbers and fractions matter beyond the classrom“It’s your life – but only if you make it so. The standards by which you live must be your own standards, your own values, your own convictions in regard to what is right and wrong, what is true and false, what is important and what is trivial. When you adopt the standards and the…
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I’m just sayin’: There is a radical alternate explanation
Read more: I’m just sayin’: There is a radical alternate explanationSome people may have simply disagreed.
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Quote of the day: Choosing between the lesser of two evils
Read more: Quote of the day: Choosing between the lesser of two evils“We all have to endure one of two pains: the pain of discipline or the pain of regret. The difference is discipline weighs ounces while regret weighs tons.” Jim Rohn Will this be hard? Will I be sorry? These questions often come-up simultaneously. We can revisit Kipling’s amazing quote from another perspective. We can imagine…
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Quote of the day: Good, Better, and Best
Read more: Quote of the day: Good, Better, and BestYou have to decide what your highest priorities are and have the courage—pleasantly, smilingly, nonapologetically, to say “no” to other things. And the way you do that is by having a bigger “yes” burning inside. The enemy of the “best” is often the “good.” Stephen Covey This quote to me is in some ways Kipling’s…
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Worth My Time: Deo Gloria
Read more: Worth My Time: Deo GloriaIt’s amazing how we can recall details when we can couple an experience with music. It just goes to show the power of emotion in solidifying memory and the power of music in evoking those emotions (just turn off the sound and watch a movie if you need a reminder). I remember exactly where I…
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Quote of the Day: Pay Full Price. In Fact, Pay More
Read more: Quote of the Day: Pay Full Price. In Fact, Pay More“If you don’t get what you want, it’s a sign either that you did not seriously want it, or that you tried to bargain over the price.” Rudyard Kipling It happens, things don’t work out like we plan. There are numerous reasons why and we know them well. However, more often than not, we simply…
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Huberman Has It Half Right
Read more: Huberman Has It Half Right“ Choice of attention – to pay attention to this and ignore that – is to the inner life what choice of action is to the outer. In both cases, a man is responsible for his choice and must accept the consequences, whatever they may be. ” — W.H. Auden Andrew Huberman, Ph.D., specialist on the eye…
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In Praise of Pop Psychology
Read more: In Praise of Pop PsychologyThe quality of any advice anybody has to offer has to be judged against the quality of life they actually lead. Douglas Adams I was amused yesterday morning to see that a conversation between two of the world’s most popular psychologists, Jordan Peterson and Dr. Phil, was in my list of recommended podcasts. I don’t…
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I Probably Owe You an Apology
Read more: I Probably Owe You an ApologyBecause I just my have (erroneously) thought you were lazy. Like you, I believe in my way of life. Well, most of it… There of course things that I know I could and should improve, but, if we live a certain way and do some things rather than others it is because we obviously perceive…
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You talkin to me?
Read more: You talkin to me?The whole point of journaling is to do one thing each day that cultivates wisdom. The harvest may be years away, but the seeds must be sown now.
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Why I Hate(d) Ryan Holiday
Read more: Why I Hate(d) Ryan HolidayMy Confession of My Un-Stoic Ways It is foolish to be unhappy now because you were at some time past. RIFFINg on SENECA Dear Ryan, “I hate that guy.” That’s what I heard running through my head when yet another of my favorite podcasts, perhaps The Tim Ferriss Show, Impact Theory, or James Altucher, to…


